This photo is destined to be a Frahm family favorite.
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Sunday, January 24, 2021
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Monday, October 12, 2020
Tickles Tabitha's Cancer-Tankerous Mommy: The Mommy in the Book.
Twenty-six years I was diagnosed with breast cancer and wrote a version of what's now Tickles Tabitha's Cancer-tankerous Mommy. The book was turned down by mainstream publishers who didn't see a market for it and believed that breast cancer wasn't something young women would be concerned about.
In October 2001, Rosie O Donnell, whose mother had died of breast cancer, announced the publication of the book on her national talk show. Tickles Tabitha's Cancer-tankerous Mommy went on to be recommended by health care professionals and cancer support groups across the county.
However, getting the book into bookstores and overcoming the stigma about cancer continued to be a struggle for years.
When Nutcracker Publishing introduced the Tickles Tabitha character and
implemented the Crack Open a Book Cancer Education curriculum it was a major milestone.Today's kids and even their parents are usually surprised to hear that when I first became an author there was no way I would have been allowed to read Tickles Tabitha's Cancer-tankerous Mommy at elementary schools. Talking about cancer- much less- breast cancer was taboo.
Cancer was not the only topic that was off-limits. Mental health issues weren't being discussed either. My Tickles Tabitha title hit on the depression and rollercoaster of emotions a family battling cancer endures in an era when it was just not talked about. I've often felt as if I'm either a step ahead or miles behind popular perception when it comes to social norms.
Much has changed since the publication of my book, beginning with its author.
Several years ago I retired to the mountains of Tennessee, but October is a month I can't let pass without acknowledging Breast Cancer Awareness. For me, it's been a journey filled with pink pumpkin events and personal angst usually brought on by public speaking.
I'm proud to say that Tabitha's Cancer-tankerous Mommy helped pioneer cancer resources for children. Talking to children about cancer is no longer deemed inappropriate, and the word breast can even be said aloud to a grade school audience.
The stigma, shame, and embarrassment I once felt about my breast cancer and the book I wrote on the topic, due to the ignorance of others, is long gone.
implemented the Crack Open a Book Cancer Education curriculum it was a major milestone.
I once had another cancer survivor tell me she just felt sorry for the children in the book because the mommy was so mean. I guess she didn't realize the mommy in the book was based on me... only nicer. We can't all be perfect mothers delusional, but if I've learned anything along the way it's that Tickles Tabitha's Mommy is not as mean as I thought she was.
Despite all that's changed Tickles Tabitha's Cancer-tankerous Mommy remains as relevant today as it was the day I wrote it. Young moms are still being diagnosed with breast cancer. Families are still dealing with mental health issues pertaining to cancer, young children are still affected by it, moms still feel guilty about it,
AND women, especially young women, still have to be their own advocate when it comes to breast health!
I found my lump when my four-year-old jumped onto my lap and I put a hand up to protect my chest. I was 34 with no family history of breast cancer. Mammograms were not advised for someone my age and today they're still not.
If you're too young for a mammogram please do a self-exam.
October (Halloween/Fright Month) is Breast Cancer Awareness Month. Whoever decided that must have had a wicked sense of humor.
Even after 26 years, waiting for the results of my mammogram is still scary. Relieved to report mine came back clean!
Despite all that's changed Tickles Tabitha's Cancer-tankerous Mommy remains as relevant today as it was the day I wrote it. Young moms are still being diagnosed with breast cancer. Families are still dealing with mental health issues pertaining to cancer, young children are still affected by it, moms still feel guilty about it,
Wednesday, May 20, 2020
My COVID Quarantine DYE DIY
#whatididduringcovid
This past Christmas my mom came to visit and to make her comfortable I succumbed to daughter’s guilt and let her have one of those electric Papa Bear recliners in my living room. I planned to hide the ugly monstrosity in the basement as soon as she left.
Only it’s too dang large and heavy to carry with ease up and down a flight of stairs. Since my husband and I have a commuter marriage, and he’s not always here to do the heavy lifting I decided to just leave the recliner in the living room.
Life can be so unfair. Like how my favorite foods are the most fattening and my most comfortable shoes are the ugliest. Or how my mom’s ugly new faux leather recliner made the leather furniture I paid a small fortune for back in the day and couldn’t bring myself to part with look old, faded, tattered.
Since no one was around to complain about the mess I was making or the lasting effects chemical fumes have on brain cells, COVID-19 Quarantine was the ideal time to tackle dying my faded leather furniture.
There are several ways to DIY leather, and they can all be found on Pinterest. After doing my research I decided to use Fiebing's leather care products. Helpful information on how to use the products can be found here. I used the following products:
I purchased 32 oz of Show Brown for a large chair/ottoman and sofa.
If I do this again I may consider using a less expensive option for deglazing or conditioning the leather. However, I would not substitute the Fiebing's Dye! It adhered great and I had zero problems with any of the dye coming off and onto clothing.
So here it is my DYE DIY…
Before
During
After
It turned out so good it made my zebra rug look shabby and it had to be replaced. Good thing I'd saved all that money DIYing my furniture! 😉 #lifeisgoodduringcovid
Wednesday, May 13, 2020
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Quarantine 2020
This year for Lent I gave up chocolate candy and social media. If ever there were a time to overindulge in both it's been during the COVID-19 quarantine. So thank you, God!
Due to Jesus and Lent, I'm lighter in more ways than one!
Monday, February 24, 2020
Lunar Laughter!
Most of the damage was around the outside rim. After I whined like a lunatic and sent pity evoking photos to my family, I decided to embrace the flaws and imperfections. If you look you will see where I kintsugied him back together.
I never quite know about the man in the moon...if he's laughing with me or at me? #lunarlaughter
Saturday, February 15, 2020
Tuesday, December 10, 2019
How does Santa Light his Christmas Lights? Nuclear Power!
Don't get caught with coal in your stocking!
Nuclear Power- It's how Santa Claus lights his Christmas lights!
This video came up in my FB memories. It's a Christmas marketing classic for Nutcracker Publishing. Watching it brings back some of my favorite Christmas memories.
It's been eight years since my children helped me create this video. Tabitha, my director, and Jordan, my Santa have moved onward and upward. Today they are navigating their own career paths.
Probably due to the inspirational motivation that job assignments at Nutcracker Publishing provided.
Ho Ho Ho!
Sunday, December 01, 2019
Santa Claus has Gone to Texas!
© 2019 Nutcracker Publishing Co.
The story written to accompany Harrison's Advent Calendar is published below.
The story written to accompany Harrison's Advent Calendar is published below.
Last November my father died, and for me, the 2018 holidays ceased to exist. It was a sad year going forward especially for my mother, aka Granny Pat. However, amidst the sadness of burying our family patriarch, my niece Makenna Krenek announced she and her husband Jacob were expecting their first child. Harrison Luke Krenek was born in July and became my mother’s first great-grandchild.
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| Granddaddy Mike Solomon, Makenna , Granny Pat and Harrison |
Harrison’s birth this summer, along with the engagement announcement of her oldest Solomon grandson brought back a joy that had been missing from Granny Pat.
It also helped to bring the motivation to create back to me, and for the first time in a while, I was inspired and motivated to write a children’s story.
I wrote Santa Claus has Gone to Texas while doing the advent calendar you see pictured for Harrison. It’s numbered this way so he can fly his reindeer back and forth across the calendar as he counts down to Christmas. In each pocket, there is a Christmas ornament from the story that he can take out and hang on his own tree.
Many aspects of this story are true. It was definitely inspired by Harrison, my brothers, and having lived in Texas. Some things may have gotten exaggerated. Harrison got blamed, but when Makenna was a little girl, she was the one who told our Aunt Nita, who’s now deceased, that she’d grown too. Many years from now I know Harrison will share this calendar, our family stories, and his childhood memories with his own children. I hope it always makes him feel loved.
Happy Holidays from Nutcracker Publishing Company, Merry Christmas from “Great” Aunt Amelia, and …God Bless you Texans!
Santa Claus has Gone to Texas
It was a month before Christmas and Santa Claus had gone to Texas.
The astronauts at NASA in Houston had been grounded and were feeling restless.
Santa agreed to let them try out his sleigh,
and told his reindeer that afterward, they’d get big bales of hay.
While the reindeer and astronauts took to the sky,
Santa took out his naughty list and let out a sigh.
Santa usually didn’t check his Texas naughty list twice
because little Texans are brought up to be nice.
But a little cowboy in Matagorda County on Byrd Salyer Road
had punched another little cowboy in the nose.
Then he’d lassoed his dog and hogtied his cat.
And told them all they better scat.
A punch in the nose could be understood
because that other little cowboy had been up to no good.
And, Santa thought, who wouldn’t be impressed that
such a small cowboy could lasso a dog and hog-tie a cat?
Maybe the little fella had been rescuing a rat.
Except these are not the reasons Harrison Luke Krenek made Santa’s naughty list. He didn’t even know such lists exist.
Harrison had a terrible problem.
His Granddaddy Mike had been spoiling him rotten.
Santa thought Harrison had too many toys.
Which would be okay if he was sharing with the other cowboys.
Unfortunately, Santa had no way to know.
The elf who was supposed to have been sitting on a shelf watching the Krenek house had to be let go.
Elfin the North Pole Elf
hadn’t been content to sit on a shelf.
He dreamed of roping Texas cockroaches while riding a bucking rooster,
Sitting on a shelf made him feel like a loser.
He’d hit the trail to become a rodeo elf!
Which seemed way more exciting than sitting on a shelf.
Santa had to admit sitting on a shelf was not a job for an elf with ambition.
But it might do for an elf who liked to sneak food from a Texas kitchen.
Food like barbecue, tacos,and queso with nachos.
He looked down at his belly thinking it looked scrawny.
Maybe Harrison’s kitchen would have some fried bologna.
He’d just go sit on Harrison’s shelf himself.
The one in the kitchen where leftovers got left.
By Christmas Eve, Santa thought, my belly will be jelly and my cheeks plumb plump.
He saddled up his horse Reckless, and called “Giddy up, go,”
“I’ve got a craving for Tex-Mex. Don’t go slow!”
Reckless snorted, to find Harrison’s house all he had to do was sniff,
but it wasn’t Tex-Mex he expected to whiff.
The last they’d heard from Elfin Elf, the tacos and nachos that Santa craved
almost led Elfin to an early grave.
Tacos were Harrison’s favorite food, and his cravings were hard to quench.
He and grandaddy ate them every meal. After-which the tooting and pooting they let loose caused a toxic stench.
Reckless whinnied a grin.
The old elf riding on my back ought to fit right in.
However, Harrison wasn’t tooting and pooting, or even playing with his toys.
He was inside his house practicing his social graces which meant not making noise.
His Great Aunt Amelia had flown in for a visit,
and he was trying hard not to fidget.
The last time she ’d seen him he had been real small,
but he was grown up now. He stood up straight and tried to look tall.
“I declare, Harrison, you sure have grown!” Aunt Amelia cried.
“You’ve grown too Aunt Amelia,” he replied,
“I’ve gotten taller and you’ve gotten wide.”
Granddaddy began roaring with laughter.
Harrison had never seen him happier.
He wasn’t sure what was so funny that he’d said, but Granddaddy was as tickled as he’d ever been.
Unfortunately, his laughter made Aunt Amelia madder than a yard cat caught by an old pecking hen.
Aunt Amelia pecked Granddaddy a thump
on his head that gave him a lump.
Her lips gave a pout
as she went huffing out.
Jumping on her broomstick, she flew away home,
knocking Santa off Reckless as they were trotting along.
“Whoa!” Santa hoed, but they were too far gone.
He lay sprawled on the ground as Aunt Amelia’s broom went hissing along.
Its tailwind blowing Reckless’s mane onto his face,
and he tumbled over Santa who was still lying in place.
Great Aunt Amelia’s departure meant Harrison was free to run about.
He put on his boots and his Astros cap, grabbed his lasso rope, and went running out.
Maybe he would have recognized Santa if he’d been wearing his red suit,
but he was clad in blue jeans, and cowboy boots.
Harrison had been warned of the danger of strangers lurking about.
He opened his mouth, and gave a shout
that almost burst everyone’s eardrums out.
Then Harrison stuck out his tongue in concentration
as he lassoed Reckless and hogtied Santa, much to Claus’s aggravation.
Upon hearing Harrison in distress, Granddaddy came running outside so fast, he couldn’t slow down,
and tripped over an armadillo who’d been rutting around.
He would have run into Reckless, as well,
except Reckless had begun swishing his tail.
The tail slowed Granddaddy down
and directed him to go around.
Santa had lost his hat,
tried to stand, but instead he sat.
He could barely move, and his eyes went squint when what should appear
but a hound-dog who slobbered Santa’s face, and was licking his beard.
Granddaddy stood up and rubbed the lump
on the side of his head Aunt Amelia had thumped.
“Harrison,” he said, “either that cowboy you’ve hogtied is Santa Claus or Aunt Amelia has injured my brain
and finally driven me insane!”
Santa Claus harrumphed a sound
as he peeped around.
There were toys strewn all over the ground.
He looked at Harrison’s grandaddy and would have frowned.
Except Santa’s eyes had the ability to recognize
the little boy still inside.
Santa recalled the only toys Harrison’s grandaddy ever received
were the ones he had brought him on Christmas Eve.
Even then he hadn’t always got what he had wished.
Cause he’d been mean and told his sister Santa didn’t exist.
This had gotten his name written at the top of the naughty list.
Santa knew Grandaddy just wanted to give Harrison what he hadn’t had.
It was sweet, but it could go BAD.
“Harrison,” Santa said, “it’s hard to be good when you’re being spoiled rotten,
and it doesn’t help matters that you come from a family chock full of other spoiled, naughty, rottens.
“Christmas isn’t easy for a boy like you.
I’m in a quandary as to what to do.
You’ve already received too many toys. The only places I’ve ever seen more
is at the North Pole workshop and in Walmart stores.”
“It’s okay Mr. Claus,” Harrison assured Santa, “I don’t need any more toys,
all I want for Christmas is a baby girl or boy.”
Feliz Navidad blared from his phone before Santa had a chance to reply.
A deafening boom blared from up high
as Santa’s sleigh plummeted from the sky.
It went plowing into a cow pasture nearby,
as an astronaut was heard to cry:
“SANTA WE HAVE A PROBLEM!”
They all stood gawking from where they were standing,
watching the astronauts make an emergency landing!
Harrison untied Santa, and Claus hurried to where his sleigh had hit the ground,
only to find that his reindeer were nowhere around.
“It’s hunting season in Texas,” an astronaut explained.
“Your reindeer spotted a deer stand, and refused to be reined.”
Didn’t you tell them, flying reindeer are an endangered species?” Santa grumbled.
“Uh huh…” the astronauts rumbled.
“I don’t think the one who almost got his red-nose blown off believed us,” one of them mumbled.
Christmas Eve was only a month away,
and it would take weeks for Santa to pack up his toy bag and hitch up his sleigh.
If there was going to be a Christmas at all,
he needed to round up his reindeer and get them back to their stalls.
“Reckless, find Elfin Elf, If I’m going to rein in those reindeer, I’ll need some elfin’ help. If he can lasso a Texas cockroach, he can lasso anything else,” Santa yelped.
From across the field, Harrison raced.
Santa could tell from the smell, that in his haste
Harrison had managed to deface his cowboy boots.
By stomping them slap dab in the middle of blobs of cow patty poop.
Harrison called, “Mr. Claus, I’m as big as an elf,
and I can help!”
Santa held his nose and opened his mouth, intending to explain
that Harrison was too young for this sort of roping game.
Except the next thing he knew he was being spoon-fed chicken n dumplings made from an ole fat hen.
Elfin Elf had been flying in on the hen
when Harrison flung his lasso around her neck and pulled them in.
Then lickity split Grandaddy plucked her feathers and cooked a plate
of the best chicken n’ dumplings Santa had ever ate.
As they watched Santa Claus devour his chicken,
Granddaddy whistled a whisper so faint Harrison had to strain to listen,
“And that,” he smiled, “is how you go about
getting a naughty list name X-ed out!
After Santa put several plates of dumplings away
they all piled into his magic sleigh.
It was hitched to Reckless who galloped at such a fast pace
his hooves left the ground, and they were soon flying in space.
Where the stars shone bright, the night was clear
and on the other side of the moon, they found Santa’s runaway deer.
They were munching cheese from an angry moon who declared them rude.
He was in a mood, and didn’t appreciate being used as reindeer food!
Harrison, Grandaddy, and Elvin helped Santa lasso them all,
and back to Texas, they were hauled.
“Harrison,” Santa said, “I know all you want for Christmas is a baby girl or boy,
You helped me out, and I’ll do my best to give you some Christmas joy.”
Then he gave granddaddy a wink, tussled Harrison’s hair,
Yet on Christmas Eve, Harrison was still surprised to look down and gaze into the eyes
of his new baby, and this time, it wasn’t another dog…
It was a pot-bellied hog!
Up on the rooftop at Byrd Salyer Road, Santa thought as he paused, maybe one day Harrison will receive a sister or brother, but that will be a gift from God, and it won’t come from Mr. Claus.
Then he ho ho-ed as he fired up his sleigh
and blew the Krenek’s a Yankee dime as he flew away.
His naughty reindeer two-stepped across the Texas sky as Santa called,
“Merry Christmas, y’all!”
And God Bless Texas, especially those naughty Kreneks!
And God Bless Texas, especially those naughty Kreneks!
Harrison's
Advent Christmas Ornaments
1.Texas
2. Cat
3. Rat
4. Santa
5. Elf
6. Rooster
7. Cockroach
9. Horse
10. Broomstick
11. Lasso
12. Armadillo
13. Cowboy Hat
14. Hound Dog
15. Sleigh
16. Astronaut
17. Reindeer
18. Boot
19. Hen
20. Star
21. Moon
22. Christmas Tree
23 Heart
24. Yankee Dime
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| Granny Pat's currency |
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| Yankee Dime (Blow Kiss) |
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